What a girl really wants..

  A lot of times I see pretty and lovable girls getting hurt, (not exempting myself *$) love and affection that could have grown into something bigger being thrown to the gutters, hopes being dashed and fragile hearts being smashed to pieces by egocentric guys who understand less of what it means to be there for a sister.
   Most times, I just wish guys could see through a girl and really know what she wants and understand that girls are fragile and emotional beings. Our hearts cannot be toyed with we want something deep. It takes a guy who is ready to go all the way to know that. Guys should understand this, its really not about all the "I love yous" (any guy could say that to us), the flowers, perfumes and luxuries, its not about the late night calling and text messages, its not about taking us to meet the parents, its not all about proposing, and giving us the wedding of our dreams, its not about showing us off to your friends, and making us feel like we're your all, its not about how many hours you spend on the phone talking, its not about all the promises you make, its not about saying all those nice things guys say, its not about acting like your interested in listening to our regular complains when really you feel like watching the match. Its seriously not about all these things. Its far more deeper, more intimate, more demanding and more exciting. Its about feeling secure and knowing someone's got your back, its about having the feeling of being loved, respected and protected. its about being happy and contented on the inside, its about being appreciated not tolerated, its about being understood, its about keeping those promises no matter how rough things get, its about the motive behind buying all those expensive stuffs, its deeper than trust, deeper than forgiveness. It is not selfish. You have to show sincere concern and honesty, its about loosing yourself knowing someone deeply cares, its about being committed and faithful.. Its all about loving unconditionallY and giving all of yourself, its about being passionately and crazily in love with someone, its about trusting and believing God together in everything.
    We really can go on and on.. No matter how carefree a girl acts, she'll definitely have these cravings. Guys please take note..
     Have a lovely weekend sweethearts. Xoxo