Let's face it, it could be really annoying when waiting especially when its taking so much time. It doesn't matter whatever it is we could be waiting for; it could be waiting on the queue in the bank, for the traffic light to go green or even waiting for the man of your dreams(that could really be frustrating). Whatever it is we could be waiting for, trust me its worth the wait. It’s painful to be constantly in a state of wanting something we don’t have. If this is you, there are hours, days and weeks flying by in your life that you will never have back. It’s time to learn patience. Patience to me is letting go of any ability we think we have to make it happen and trusting God in his own time to take us through it all and bringing us to that very very perfect end.(Wow).
So many times I've made myself feel I just have to be in a relationship to be happy, I have to be in love with some one bla bla, lately I began to discover how totally wrong I was. I understand. These things, I've cried countless times at night too, wondering what was wrong with me, asking myself if I was normal, relationships failing, falling, feelings of loneliness and all those stuffs which I'm sure we all feel sometimes but I've also come to finally understand that even the greatest blessing can be a curse, if it lacks preparation and is given prematurely. Ecclesiastes 3:1 says "To everything there is a season and a time to every purpose under the heaven”… I went through one hell of a breakup and I was so so down, I cried everyday, sleepless nights and all but between all of that, I just knew I had to do something rather than crying and hating and feeling I wasn't normal. I decided to talk to God about it(I must confess something I wasn't used to doing) and sugar I discovered that we seriously need to discern our season, waiting on God should be a season where we forsake every other thing and draw closer to God, being wholesomely committed to his will, being faithful and loyal to him. (Not sleeping around and making sure all the men in the world are sexually satisfied) I'm very very sure about this, God will blow our minds with the man of our dreams if we try him and see.
I'm currently reading a book by Michelle Mckinney Hammond on being an irresistible woman and I just can't help sharing this wonderful book with you on what to do while waiting for the man of your dreams. We all know we can't just sit and say we're waiting, we just have to do something, we need to get a life, you can't afford to be idle or dulling, I quote her "if an idle mind is the devil's workshop, then an empty life has got to be the most fabulous playground he'll ever romp across" lol.. Ladies do not ever say you'll get life when the right man come, your just has to begin now. See this,
*Say hello to self satisfaction. When you are happy and pleased with yourself, you begin to smile subconsciously from the inside out. The light of your smile just has to attract someone. Be happy with yourself, say good bye to self pity.
*Get busy. Women who get busy about the business of their God-ordained purpose are happy people and happy people attract other happy people. Go ahead and pursue that dream you buried.
*Transform your mindset. You just have to change the way you think(I'm seriously working on this myself) you can't be thinking negative and expect things to turn out positive. Countless times I've thought negative and you can bet on this, it surely did turn out negative.
*Let go of your mistakes. No matter how bad or ugly it looks, let it go. Don't even try to judge anybody with it. Allow God to do the deleting and restoring. Everybody makes mistakes, you just have to learn from them, let them go and count it all joy.
*Live in your moment. By living in the your past, you are definitely not living your moment. Enjoy yourself, 'live your life like its golden' appreciate everything God sends your way. Look attractive for yourself.
*Sing your praises. Sweetheart, you just have to toot your horn. Appreciate yourself, tell yourself how beautiful you are, confidently smile to yourself, carry yourself with grace, swing your hair. Be proud of yourself.
*Develop yourself. Now, this is very important, trust me no brother wants to end up with some undeveloped sister. Study the word, Read books, Go back to school, acquire a skill, learn how to cook, make money,(there's nothing wrong in that), make yourself upgraded and classy..
*Build your faith, trust God for everything, be faithful and committed to him. Do not be distracted, let all your friends be there, God knows why you're not there yet he's saving the best for you..
Maybe we should read Michelle Mckinney Hammonds "what to do until love finds you and "secrets of an irresistible woman. And you should also know this, that no matter how long it takes, sweetheart, love will always and definitely find you. Just be patient.. It will surely work out for your good................ Love You Much, Aibee
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